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How To Say No, Set Boundaries and

Get Your 

Life Back

The Mindset Shift Every Healthcare Professional Needs

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Learn simple and practical strategies to protect your time and set boundaries around your work, so you can break the cycle of exhaustion, get some time and headspace and enjoy the work you love - even in an overwhelmed system. 

✅ A 6-module self-paced online programme designed by doctors 

 Free up your time IMMEDIATELY with powerful strategies to put the brakes on your to-do list.  

✅ Neuroscience-based techniques powered by The Shapes Toolkit®️

✨ PLUS access to our bonus mini-training, Escape the Overwhelm Cycle 

How To Say No, Set Boundaries and

Get Your 

Life Back

The Mindset Shift Every Healthcare Professional Needs

 

GET INSTANT ACCESS (£147)

Learn simple and practical strategies to protect your time and set boundaries around your work, so you can break the cycle of exhaustion, get some time and headspace and enjoy the work you love - even in an overwhelmed system. 

✅ A 6-module self-paced online programme designed by doctors 

 Free up your time IMMEDIATELY with powerful strategies to put the brakes on your to-do list.  

✅ Neuroscience-based techniques powered by The Shapes Toolkit®️

✨ PLUS access to our bonus mini-training, Escape the Overwhelm Cycle 

 

You’re a senior doctor or experienced healthcare professional — the one others rely on.

You’re smart, skilled, and calm under pressure. You’ve read the time management books, downloaded the productivity tools, and attended the workshops.

You know what to do. 

But when the pressure’s on (and let's face it - these days, that's more often than not) it all falls apart. Not because you’re disorganised, but because you really care.

You worry about letting people down when your colleagues are overwhelmed too.

You feel guilty setting boundaries - what if there's an error, a complaint or a consequence you didn't foresee?

And you’re exhausted from holding everything together while telling your friends and family it's all fine - you just need to make it to the weekend, or your next annual leave, and you'll feel better. 

You’re not lazy. You’re not failing. You’re running on fumes — and it’s unsustainable.

Getting your life back starts by changing how you approach your work - without losing yourself along the way.

How I Started Working Differently — and Got My Life Back

Hello, I’m Dr Rachel Morris — former GP, Executive Coach, and host of the You Are Not a Frog podcast.

I know what it’s like to feel overwhelmed, exhausted and guilty that you can’t do it all — especially when people rely on you. For years, I juggled frontline clinical work, family life, and multiple roles, trying to keep everyone happy and everything afloat.

It wasn’t until I trained as a coach and discovered the tools that became the Shapes Toolkit® that I realised:

👉 There was nothing I could do about my endless to-do list, the pressure I was under or the unmanageable workload. (And I couldn't wait for the system to change before I got a handle on my stress.)

👉 What I DID have the power to change was the mindset I’d learned from the very start of my career in medicine — that I should be able to do it all, never saying no, and sacrificing myself – without ever dropping a single ball.

I learned a new way to look at my time, priorities, and limits. And that's when everything shifted.

I stopped trying to be everything to everyone — and started working in a way that meant I could actually do a good job - without burning out. 

I created the 'Get Your Life Back' course to share the practical mindset tools I wish I’d known earlier. In short, easy-to-apply lessons: so overwhelmed doctors like you can protect your boundaries, prevent burnout, and thrive — even in a stretched and stressed system.

These tools have helped thousands of doctors and leaders across the NHS take back control of their workload, protect their wellbeing, and thrive in roles they love.

If you’re ready to step off the hamster wheel, I’d love to show you how.

Dr Rachel Morris, Host of the Apple UK Business Top 100 'You Are Not A Frog' Podcast

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As a busy GP senior partner, I initially felt guilty taking an hour for myself — but once I got started, I really enjoyed it. The tools are practical and immediately useful, like the urgent/important grid I now think about all the time. We’re so used to the pressure, we forget we’re human too — and we can’t keep pouring from an empty cup.

- Dr Sowerby, GP Senior Partner

A 3-Step Reset for Real-World Boundaries

Working in a high-stakes healthcare role means you're under constant pressure to keep going, keep saying yes, and hold it all together. This course gives you a practical way to break the cycle — without compromising your care, your standards, or letting your colleagues down.

In 6 bite-sized modules, you'll learn:

📌  WHY setting boundaries is the key to beating burnout 

Understand why embracing your limits and saying no is the only way you’ll beat the stress of working in a stretched system 

📌  WHEN to say no (and when to flex) 

Take control of your boundaries: address perfectionism, people-pleasing, and how to prioritise better. 

📌  HOW to say no without the guilt 

Deal with the 3 “toxic tethers” - fear, shame and guilt – and understand how to leave them behind to choose a life you want. 

Get Your Life Back in 3 easy steps:
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CHOOSE HOW TO LEARN

Do one module a day for a week with our daily email reminders, listen podcast-style, or blitz through it in a few hours — the choice is yours!

TAKE ACTION: 

Get practical strategies you can use in your job straight away — not just theory. See results fast and start getting your time back with simple changes.

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Here's what you'll gain...

A balanced day with space to pause and reset

 

So that you can:

✅ Take an actual lunch break - away from your desk or a meeting on 3 out of 5 days

✅ Stop checking emails when you get back from work without anxiety

✅ Leave work at the time YOU'VE decided to - even if it's not all done.

Absolute clarity on what REALLY matters - and what doesn't

 

So that you can:

✅ Confidently say "That's not my priority right now" to urgent but non-important requests

✅ Spend at least 30 minutes per day focusing on one of your important projects instead of never-ending clinical tasks

✅ Stop feeling guilty about the things you choose NOT to do

Real-life strategies for setting boundaries that don't crumble in the face of pushback

 

So that you can:

✅ Use the exact scripts that work when colleagues say "Could you just..."

✅ Stay calm and confident when someone tries to guilt you into extra work

✅ Protect your time without feeling like you're letting your team down

Buy How To Say No, Set Boundaries and...

Get Your Life Back 

 

£147 inc VAT

The 'Get Your Life Back' e-course includes:

 ✅ 6 Video Modules - The approach hundreds of NHS staff use to set boundaries that stick


Audio Versions - Listen during your commute, on dog walks, or while doing admin (no extra time needed)


Implementation Workbook - Turn insights into action with step-by-step exercises


60 Minutes Self-Certified CPD - Complete with reflection sheets for your appraisal


BONUS: Escape the Overwhelm Cycle - 3-part video series (Value: £47)


Email Support Sequence- 7 days of gentle reminders to keep you on track

 

⭐️ 100% 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee ⭐️

 

Bonus Training: Escape The Overwhelm Cycle

In this 3-part mini video series, you'll find out why leaders and managers in health and social care face an impossible task when it comes to their workload - and the key to escaping the trap. 

 

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I really enjoyed Get Your Life Back. It condensed so many helpful strategies and reflective tasks into a manageable hour. I’ve been struggling with saying no and setting boundaries. The course has helped shift my mindset and freed me of some of the guilt I was experiencing.

- Dr McGlen, Consultant Forensic Psychiatrist

Give yourself the freedom of prioritising powerfully...

 

CHOOSE HOW YOU ACCESS THE ONLINE RESOURCES: 

  • Take 10 minutes to work through a lesson a day for a week - we'll send you short email reminders with a link to every step!
  • Block out a morning and work through the whole course in one go. 
  • Or listen to the audio versions, podcast-style, on your way to work, while you’re cooking, or on a walk. 
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What You'll Learn in Get Your Life Back

The ABC of Super-Human Performance

Gives you the first steps to take when you’re sliding towards burnout and helps you embrace your limits.

The Big Rocks Priority Method

Helps you gain absolute clarity on what really matters, uncover your deeper motivation, and understand your "why." 

The Traffic Light Consequence Sorter

Helps you decide which boundaries to hold firm and which to flex — by getting clear on which consequences you can tolerate and which are non-negotiable.

The Power Mantra Boundary Protectors

Teaches you how to rewrite the toxic stories that keep you stuck, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and stop crumbling in the face of pushback.

✨ PLUS SPECIAL BONUS ✨ 

Escape the Overwhelm Cycle

In our 3-bite-sized video series, discover why so many leaders in health and social care end up trapped by their unmanageable workload - and what to do about it.

✔︎ The two types of responsibility/control mismatch and how they impact your workload. 

✔︎ The mindset you must conquer to be able to set boundaries and say "no".

✔︎ The superhero fallacy and its impact on work-life balance burnout in healthcare. 

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Get Your Life Back is powered by the Shapes Toolkit® - a set of quick, easy-to-use tools, designed by doctors for doctors.


Helping you deal with the daily pressures of clinical life—whether it's workload, stress, or tricky team dynamics.

Created specifically for busy healthcare professionals working on the frontline, each Shape gives you a simple way to take control, protect your energy, and get unstuck—fast

 

Doctors and healthcare professionals in high-stress, high-stakes roles use the system to…

  • Understand that feeling burned out is a NORMAL response to excess pressure - Allowing you to make informed and strategic decisions to prevent you from feeling trapped.
  • Take stock of what's in your work schedule, and how you can control what's in your scope - So you can protect your time and energy and get a sustainable work-life balance.
  • Understand that protecting your time and energy is part of your professional responsibility in healthcare - Giving you permission to put yourself first when necessary. 
  • Get practical tools, scripts and techniques for setting boundaries and saying no  - meaning your boundaries don't crumble when you get pushback from others.

The time to work through exercises to make me stop and think was so valuable. It couldn't have come at a better time, as on top of the usual work pressures, it really helped bring things into perspective about what I can and can't control and how I can use this to set priorities and boundaries. Making time for my own wellbeing through boundaries is going to be more important than ever.

- Dr Steadman, Consultant Community Paediatrician

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